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Layne's avatar

Peter I have terrible news for you, Canadians can’t drive worth a fuck either. Living in a town with a median age of 62+, I can also tell you that you get fucking worse at driving the older you get. I watched an old woman drive into a bank (critical support to her!) while parked in a parking lot. I guess D does look like R if you look quickly?

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I'm a former new yorker- new york driving is really aggressive. Leaving has helped me notice that the people who raised me use the road as an "acceptable place" to deposit the rage they've built up all day in the service industry, dealing with family, from traffic itself, etc. I think it's pretty toxic!!! and a clear symptom of how unwell we are.

Unlearning car rage has been a practice for me. Thich Nhat Hanh wrote a little meditation for getting in a car that I look at on my dashboard, it goes like this:

Before starting the car,

I know where I am going.

The car and I are one.

If the car goes fast, I go fast.

Living rurally now I see roadkill often. I need that car when I gotta get where I'm going, and I try to remember the many layered costs of turning it on when I do.

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